Had a
chat with my boss this morning. He shared about how his friend had influenced
him all the way when he was in high school back then. He was dealing with
anxiety, where he was extremely afraid of people around him and he was refused
to make friends with all the classmates when he was in his lower form( form 1
until form 3) back then. Despite of that, he met a friend, without knowing the
reason why he doesn't afraid of being friend with him. He told me that that
friend was the only friend who he can ever accepted at that time and when they
hanged out together, the friend was the only one who will talked by himself and
laughed by himself. My boss will remained silent all the time seeing that
fellow laughing at his own jokes all the time. That friend has brought a big
impact to my boss's life, because of his friend's effort, my boss started to
open-up his heart to accept the people around him and he even started to make
friends with them. I could feel how grateful my boss towards his friend that
had help him when he was at the most suffer times, regardless of how he treated
him from the past. He may have ignored him, but his friend had never once
giving up to cheer up him, until he was fully recovered and became a cheerful
person. Since then, their friendship's bond stronger and still counting on.
From his story, it reminding me that each and everyone of us have our own
stories in life, regardless of whether we are in the state of happy moment or
we are feeling sad at the moment, you must believe that everything happens for
a reason. You are born to be happy. Despite all the suffering, it can bring you
to be a better person. When you are suffer, you have got the chance to
understand others, when others are experiencing the same situation or same
state of mind. You may be able to help out the person who are dealing with the
similar suffer. Only with that, we have that compassionate heart, we learnt to
care for others, we learnt to help others when they are needed. Life is full of
happiness when each and everyone of us started to care for others and help each
others. Only through a sincere dialogue, we can understand more about someone's
deep in the heart, breaking the invisible wall in our heart, to open-up and
gain that trust in between. With this, can make make a better and happy world.
So,
let's start to dialogue with a friend today!:)
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